Losing items makes me feel like I have no control over anything. I always keep track of my belongings, but once you have let someone borrow something it is out of your control.
However, I have a different viewpoint on borrowing... Well, actually I wouldn't call it borrowing.
My roommate comes wandering into my room when I am not here, and she looks in my bra drawer. Some people might think that it is disgusting to borrow bras. However, I work at Victoria Secret and have 87 bras. Yes, I said 87! I know when I have bras missing because I am an observant person and I do wear the majority of my bras.
So whenever I do notice, I go searching the drawers of my roommate. The best part about all of this is that she wears a different size then some of the bras she takes from me. I always find my missing bras in her room. This was an ongoing problem so finally I just bought here some. But she still does it. I think it has become a sick fetish for her.
I have no problem if she borrows and tells me, but she borrows keeps them and never tells me and pretends like she never knew they were even there. Now, I can get over the bra thing, but when I found a pair of underwear that I had been missing for two and a half years, I was disgusted. Who borrows underwear????? I hope nobody. That is just wrong. You borrow a pair of underwear and you can keep it. Or better yet throw it away.
I found the pair of underwear in a drawer of hers that I had previously looked in for this pair of underwear 2 years prior? Well come to find out she stole panties from my roommates and I because she would run out of clean panties before she did her laundry. Who would have thought. My roommate steals bras and panties.... The best part is I did not tell her I found the panties in her drawer in fact I took them out of her drawer and put them in the trash. Hmmm... I wonder if she will ever notice that her panties were missing, oh wait I mean my panties.
